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They don’t deviate too much. Although the holidays are usually a happy time, the holiday season may also be detrimental to your health. It’s important to accept the fact that frequently, you won’t be able to accomplish everything that you have planned. So, relax. Even if you don’t complete your “to do” list, everything usually works out alright. Don’t fantasize that this is the year everything will be wonderful and all the family members will get along and have a fantastic time. Realistically, this frequently doesn’t happen. Don’t feel depressed if things don’t go the way you wanted them to. You expected more and got less. But remember, expectations are rarely fulfilled. Today, life can be stressful enough just doing routine activities. So, it is only natural that during the holidays when you have a great deal more to accomplish, it will be more anxiety provoking. During the holidays, the parents and grandparents sacred homes are invaded by family members of all ages. This results in some drastic changes in their daily routines. Their snug nest is overrun by children and grandchildren. Their previously peaceful and tranquil home is transformed from a sea of equanimity into a sea of confusion, clutter and chaos. But hang in there, because their visitation rights are limited, and soon, after everyone departs, you will have time to return to your usual mundane and sedate life. You can then reflect on a new set of 2014 memories. Yes, the holiday season is an exciting and busy time but when they are over, you may find that there is a void in your life. In spite of how your life was disrupted, you will miss being with those responsible for the disruption. From a big-picture point of view, the gifts and food that require most of the work and produce the most stress are really just icing on the holiday cake. What is really important is enjoying and appreciating the time spent together with family and friends, even if everything isn’t always perfect. Have a happy, healthy and less stressful holiday season. Dr. Murray Feingold is the physician in chief of the Feingold Center for Children, medical editor of WBZ-TV and WBZ radio, and president of the Genesis Fund. The Genesis Fund is a nonprofit organization that funds the care of children born with birth defects, mental retardation and genetic diseases. 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