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It seems there’s just such a rush on them at the first of the year, so it’s my little way of avoiding the crowd. But I’m feeling ambitious this time around — and I’ve found someone who I think can help me with all the Legos and toy trains in the basement. Diane Zielinski, a reformed clutterbug from Gates, New York, offers seminars and one-on-one sessions for people who want to let go of some of their stuff and make more room for calm, for peace and for God. That sounds divine. “The more stuff you have on the outside, the less capable you are of dealing with the stuff on the inside,” Zielinski said. “If you come in your house and it stresses you out, then you have no place to calm down and reflect.” Zielinski knows that first-hand because she’s been there, surrounded by piles of cookbooks and turtlenecks — 28 to be exact. She always wanted to appear neat and organized, so she’d spend hours cleaning before guests arrived, like the time her brother visited from Japan. She stuffed her closets and drawers full, hid magazines under the couch cushions and tucked some snowmen and other Christmas decorations behind the pillow shams on her bed. When she was giving her jet-lagged brother a tour of the house, he plopped down on the bed, and, you guessed it, he broke some of the decorations. He felt terrible, and Zielinski felt something had to change. Two years of steady de-cluttering later, Zielinski had reclaimed her home and her life. Now, she’s helping other people to forgive themselves, to focus on the great lives they’ll have when they aren’t tethered to all that clutter — and to really trust that God “can support you in dealing with stuff and with relationships.” If you don’t have someone like Zielinski nearby, try Marla Cilley’s site, flylady.net, for free tips or check out her book, “Sink Reflections.” Tsh Oxenreider also has a beautiful book available called “Organized Simplicity: The Clutter-Free Approach to Intentional Living.” Both books are available at many public libraries, which means they won’t become clutter in your home! Marketta Gregory is a former religion reporter who now shares her own journey of faith with readers. She lives in Rochester, New York, with her husband, their three young boys and one very vocal Pomeranian. To contact Gregory, email [email protected] or write to her at P.O. Box 12923, Rochester, NY 14612. You can also visit the Simply Faithful page on Facebook and follow her on Twitter at @MarkettaGregory. 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