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3 of 3 Premium Clicks used this month SUBSCRIBE Print + Online Subscriber Activation  |  Register x Forgot Password | Need an Account? e-edition | subscribe | newsletter | deals Home News Latest Stories Emergency services Judge backs Medford marijuana dispensary ban Crater Lake may soon have China connection Suspected Jackson County car thief arrested in Eugene on similar charges Medford kicks off summer with RecFest events Saturday Crime, Courts and Emergency Services Emergency services Suspected Jackson County car thief arrested in Eugene on similar charges Forgery, identity theft charges brought against suspect who fought with police Ashland police hope to crack down on rowdies Peavine Creek Fire fully lined Politics and Elections Pacific Connector Gas Pipeline opponents rally in Medford BREAKING: Baltimore prosecutor charges officers in Freddie Gray's death Earthquakes hit regularly in Medford (Oklahoma, that is) Medford School Board, Position 6: Curt Ankerberg vs. Janet Lightheart Arthur I. Cyr: Cuba’s enduring challenge to American foreign policy – and American politics Education Appeals court rules against Central Point schools on bus outsourcing Hedrick principal to take helm at North Medford High School More kindergartners vaccinated in 2015 Elementary students honor local police officers Levy backers eye final push Environment Crater Lake may soon have China connection State waives college placement tests for students who hit high marks Stopping fire in its tracks Pacific Connector Gas Pipeline opponents rally in Medford Earthquakes hit regularly in Medford (Oklahoma, that is) State News Forecast for 2015 predicts busy wildfire season Cheers and protest signs greet President Obama in Oregon Oregon Senate OKs bill banning 'conversion therapy' Police: Welsh man traveled to Oregon to have sex with girl Josephine County commissioners pass drought resolution, despite protests Nation - World There's a $10 million precious stone hidden in plain sight at Grand Central Tsarnaev convicted on all charges in Boston Marathon bombing Obituaries Helen Nadine Sankey Dickie Miles Hayes Nita Day Layne Alan Battenfield Gene Fredric Wolf Weather Photo Galleries Since You Asked Videos Web Cams Mail Tribune 100 Shareable Sports Latest Stories Challengers hire Martinez as girls coach Ex-Panthers Baldovino, Owirka earn honors In the zone Ducks' Keys chases fourth Pac-12 crown Ducks bring in transfer from Villanova Varsity 541 College Sports Ex-Panthers Baldovino, Owirka earn honors In the zone Ducks' Keys chases fourth Pac-12 crown Ducks bring in transfer from Villanova SOU ready to defend home track Pro Sports Many happy returns for Singler Rockets survive Clippers, even series Singler open to remaining in OKC Harper's three homers, five RBIs lift Nationals Probe: Pats personnel probably deflated balls Community Sports Bailey picks up modified win Wilson delivers in return of local boxing Palmer breezes to second straight men’s title Business Latest Stories Social media expert to address Women Entrepreneurs of Southern Oregon Rogue Valley Mall filling out with new stores, expansions and moves Haggen prepares to replace Safeway in Ashland on Sunday Single-family home sales take off Blog: Feeling like a few days in Italy? Medford/Jackson County Chamber has trip planned just for you Real Estate News Single-family home sales take off Never enough: New Starbucks proposed on Barnett Road in Medford Jackson County debt-ridden homeowners have an option New home in an old house Naumes plans custom-crush winery in former packing house People In Business Transportation Erickson finds room to work at Medford airport Lithia Motors nets $40.7 million in first quarter Lithia Motors reports second-best quarter ever Business briefs Medford airport's record run continues Agriculture 1-800Flowers.com reports $10.5 million loss in third quarter Naumes plans custom-crush winery in former packing house New bosses take charge at Harry & David Dancin Vineyards covers up Opinion Latest Dianne Williamson: Let’s end the marathon bomber saga Our View: Cheers and jeers Letters to the Editor, May 7 George Will: A patrician blacksmith for president? Dana Milbank: Huckabee's ill-fated quest Editorials Our View: Cheers and jeers Our View: Set firm deadlines on blighted houses Our View: Oregon's full of givers, and can use more Our View: Our picks for Medford School Board Other Views: Gun-bill recalls misguided, futile Letters to the Editor Letters to the Editor, May 7 Letters to the Editor, May 6 Letters to the Editor, May 5 Letters to the Editor, May 4 Letters to the Editor, May 3 Columns George Will: A patrician blacksmith for president? Dana Milbank: Huckabee's ill-fated quest Kathleen Parker: Matters of perception Michael Gerson: The intricate knot of urban poverty Kathleen Parker: Wife of the party Guest Opinions Guest Opinion: Animal-killing program pulls wool over taxpayers' eyes Guest Opinion: Uniting to restore our sovereignty to we, the people Guest Opinion: This Earth Day, we celebrate the Northwest Forest Plan The Medford School Board was wrong: 'American Pageant' is a political agenda, not history The Medford School Board was right: 'American Pageant' is a fine book, and the board did its homework Lifestyle Latest stories Celebrating our feathered friends Blog: Sorcerer-historians and hunted boats Antionette Kerr: Mother’s Day founder challenged commercialism Breathe easier with whole-house air purification Religion News: Vatican newspaper denounces Muhammad cartoons Food Community blog: Teatime is anytime when recipes brew new dishes Eat your greens (tea, that is) Season Stepp: Make some cheesecake mousse-filled strawberries Page H. Onorato: Baked potato soup is comfort in a bowl Page H. Onorato: Grandma Jane comes a-calling Home and Garden Breathe easier with whole-house air purification Dear Monty: Water rights of property owners Paul Rogers: ‘Living’ mulches a healthy alternative to bark Heirloom tomatoes bring ageless flavor Betty Montgomery: You can have a variety of ferns in your garden Health New cardiac rehab center opens at Asante RRMC Community blog: You and Me at 83... Search on for new medical provider for Butte Falls, Prospect clinics Dr. Murray Feingold: Turn down that noise Health Watch: Pack your pantry with healthy items Hiking Biking Faith Religion Briefs: Friday, May 1 Religion Briefs: Friday, April 24 Religion Briefs: Friday, April 17 Religion briefs: Friday, April 10 Milestones and Achievements Drones helping create unique wedding photos Pick your favorite wedding flowers The ring’s the thing Chic brides are choosing a range of complementary colors for their celebration Registries: ‘Year of the groom’ Columnist for a Day Rogue Healthy Aging Tempo Latest stories Peter Rowan, Big Sandy & His Fly-Rite Boys at Rootsfest Dancing People Company presents 'Salon Series' Tina Malia at SOU Music Hall in Ashland Los Lonely Boys and Lucas Nelson at the Rogue Theatre Page Hamilton comes home Theater REVIEW: Randall Theatre's 'Little Shop of Horrors' a rollicking good time REVIEW: Carson, Patton shine in 'Arsenic and Old Lace' Some Oregon Shakespeare Festival crew members seek to unionize Randall Theatre stages 'Little Shop of Horrors' 'Much Ado' at SOU Music Peter Rowan, Big Sandy & His Fly-Rite Boys at Rootsfest The Farr Side: Mumford & Sons’ latest is full-on rock Tina Malia at SOU Music Hall in Ashland Earthquake benefit for Nepal Los Lonely Boys and Lucas Nelson at the Rogue Theatre Community Events Hip-Hop Poetry Open Mic at OSF's Black Swan in Ashland Ashland's First Friday Art Walk showcases new exhiits by regional artists Master Gardener Spring Fair at The Expo A Taste of Ashland pairs food and wine at galleries Rogue Valley Earth Day 2015 Movies George Miller returns to his ‘Mad Max’ roots Tom Hardy adapts to life as Mad Max Victor D. Infante: ‘Avengers’ begs the questions, ‘Why superheroes, and why now?’ Movie review: ‘Avengers: Age of Ultron’ has a lot going on Movie review: ‘Avengers: Age of Ultron’ knows how to party Dining Trium is a classic example of a boutique winery Restaurant inspections, May 3, 2015 Taqueria Picaro offers casual Mexican cuisine Restaurant inspections: April 26, 2015 Island Grindz serves up Hawaiian specialties Tempo Videos Classifieds Jobs Autos Real Estate FEATURED   » Obits Blogs TV Listings Movie Listings Oregon Outdoors Oregon Healthy Living Special Sections Business Services NEWS NOW   Forecast for 2015 predicts busy wildfire season       ...       Cheers and protest signs greet President Obama in Oregon       ...       Judge backs Medford marijuana dispensary ban       ...       Forecast for 2015 predicts busy wildfire season       ...       Cheers and protest signs greet President Obama in Oregon       ...       Judge backs Medford marijuana dispensary ban       ...           Go Ask Alice: Those were the days Comment By Alice Coyle More Content Now MailTribune.com By Alice Coyle More Content Now Posted May. 5, 2015 at 12:08 PM By Alice Coyle More Content Now Posted May. 5, 2015 at 12:08 PM »  Social News Remember watching TV? It seems like forever ago when you would gather the fam together and watch a favorite sitcom when it was actually airing on a network channel – ABC, NBC or CBS. These were the days before cable or satellite or Verizon Fios brought us hundreds of channels that few of us ever watch — unless we’re in the market for a tanzanite pendant set in sterling silver on an 18-inch box chain. You knew when your show was on, and you planned your schedule accordingly so you could catch the latest episode of “M*A*S*H” or “Barney Miller” or “Little House on the Prairie.” If you missed it you’d have to wait for summer reruns to find out “What’s Happening” with Rerun, Roger, Dwayne and Dee. Entire nights of the week were devoted to television consumption; some of it worthy of the time spent glued to the tube – “Hill Street Blues,” “St. Elsewhere” and “All in the Family”; some not so much – “The Six Million Dollar Man,” “Bionic Woman,” “Love Boat” and “Fantasy Island.” Season finale cliffhangers were just that, and you made sure you didn’t miss them. There was no need for a spoiler alert or any way you’d let someone ruin the ending for you, and there was all summer to wonder “Who shot J.R.?” It was the same with sports. You watched the big games, playoff match ups and championships when they were happening – there was no ESPN highlight reel to show you the amazing athletic feats of Larry Bird or Dr. J you missed live. Sure it was a time commitment, but television, like the dinner table, often brought families together. When I was a kid it was Sunday afternoons watching Philadelphia Eagles football that connected my clan. As and adult, my blended brood enjoyed reality TV’s “American Idol” and “Survivor” in the early seasons. It was an hour on a Tuesday or Thursday night when everyone was together in one room sharing a common experience. It’s all so different today. DVRs, Netflix and Hulu have made television programming rather irrelevant and family time in front of the TV nearly non-existent. My 16-year-old son can turn into a zombie binge-watching an entire season of “The Walking Dead” on his tablet, coming out of his room only to eat between episodes. My husband doesn’t have to worry about the Thursday scheduling conflict between “Scandal” and “The Blacklist,” he can set the DVR to tape it (from his iPhone, if we’re out to dinner and forgot) and watch it whenever he likes … or finds the time. This is all well and good until our DVR fills up, or when we want to tape two different shows airing at the same time and catch the last four innings of the Red Sox game on another channel – which can’t be done. We can wait a few days and get that show we couldn’t record “on demand” but can’t fast-forward past the commercials, which also vexes my spouse. And when we don’t make the time to watch the shows we’ve taped, they pile up and we absolutely cannot watch the new episode of “The Good Wife” until we get caught up and watch all the ones we’ve recorded. There is also that unwritten marital agreement that we view the backlog of shows together and in order; neither spouse shall sneak in an episode and jump ahead of the other learning valuable insights into Olivia Pope’s complicated romantic and family relationships. The ridiculousness of this new way of watching TV became abundantly clear to me on a recent Wednesday night when I had three weeks of “Nashville” to catch up on and the all-new episode was about to air. There I was at 9:58 p.m. racing for the remote to delete a half-season of the “Mindy Project” and “The Goldberg’s” so I had enough space to tape the new “Nashville” — while binge-watching the old. Bleary-eyed and exhausted at 1 a.m., I was finally up to date on Deacon Claybourne’s ongoing liver cancer battle and Juliette Barnes’ struggles balancing her career with a new baby. And I found myself longing for those simpler Saturday nights escaping to “Fantasy Island” with Mr. Rourke and Tattoo. Alice Coyle is the managing editor of GateHouse Media’s Marshfield, Massachusetts, office. She can be reached at [email protected] or follow her on Twitter at @accoyleWL. 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