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Restaurant inspections: April 26, 2015 Island Grindz serves up Hawaiian specialties Tempo Videos Classifieds Jobs Autos Real Estate FEATURED   » Obits Blogs TV Listings Movie Listings Oregon Outdoors Oregon Healthy Living Special Sections Business Services NEWS NOW   BREAKING: Baltimore prosecutor charges officers in Freddie Gray's death       ...       Our View: Bill gives ex-convicts a glimmer of hope       ...       Fishing Report: Friday, May 1       ...       BREAKING: Baltimore prosecutor charges officers in Freddie Gray's death       ...       Our View: Bill gives ex-convicts a glimmer of hope       ...       Fishing Report: Friday, May 1       ...           Donna Knight: Alzheimer's brings challenges By Donna Knight HoumaToday.com MailTribune.com By Donna Knight HoumaToday.com Posted Apr. 29, 2015 @ 9:40 am By Donna Knight HoumaToday.com Posted Apr. 29, 2015 @ 9:40 am »  Social News p bs:newslist StartDate="20121121" EndDate="p bs:datecalc Months="3"" DateSort="1" UseObjects="1" ObjectClass="81" Taxonomywords="2325,665" ExactTaxonomyMatch="1" Image="1" Count="4" --> Momma said my name recently. Ordinarily that would not be something worth mentioning, but my Mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in 2010 and has been on a very gradual downhill slide since then. She hasn’t called me by name for some time and I thought she had finally forgotten who I was. But I was wrong, she still recognizes me, and that makes me really happy. Before my husband, Randy, and I started caring for Mom at home, neither one of us had really been around someone with Alzheimer’s. We did not know just how devastating that disease can be. Learning to care for Mom is a sort of on-the-job training for us. But we are getting through it and starting to understand the disease much better. The deterioration in Mom’s memory all started with her writing notes. We noticed that she would write notes about everything and put them all over her house. Her kitchen table, calendar and refrigerator became covered with notes about everything imaginable. That was when we first realized Mom was having memory issues. That started when she was in her late 60s and seemed to go on without changing for many years. It stayed the same until she had a mild stroke when she was in her late 70s. After the stroke, things started progressing much faster until finally in 2010, my sister Sandy and I took Mom to the doctor to see what could be done for her failing memory. Our family doctor sent Mom to a geriatric doctor who gave her a battery of specialized tests. The result of the tests was that she was in the early stages of Alzheimer’s disease. Unfortunately one does not recover from Alzheimer’s. It is a progressive and ultimately fatal disease. Randy and I started caring for Mom, and she did very well until my father, who was in a nursing home, passed away in 2011. After that, the downhill slide became faster and more obvious. Now, it is a daily struggle against the Alzheimer’s as Mom loses more and more of herself to the disease. Mom has developed behaviors that she never had before that sometimes can be very hard to deal with. Mom used to pass time by looking at magazines and photo albums. But now we cannot give those to her because she tears them apart. She will tear pages one by one out of a magazine until they are all torn out. Also she will get the photos out of the albums and tear them up. The only thing that seems to work is removing the item from her hands as she does not seem to realize she is destroying the objects. Mom started making noises that are something between a grunt and a hum. She makes this noise continuously, though lately and thankfully not as loud. She also will tap her feet or pat her hands, and this can go on for hours. Lately she seems to get fixated with one behavior and that is all she will do for days on end. For the last few weeks, the behavior has been scratching the right side of her face. Before that it was scratching her left arm. She will do this scratching behavior until she actually makes a tear in her skin. It is very difficult to deal with, but we are learning the different ways to cope and prevent her from hurting herself. We have learned that redirection is the main key to handling the bad behaviors that she develops. Living with Alzheimer’s is not easy, but it can be done. There are new challenges every day as the disease progresses, but we are learning to take these in stride. It is a journey we have chosen to take with Mom, and while it is sometimes difficult, we do not regret that choice. Donna Knight writes for The Thibodaux (La.) Daily Comet and The Houma (La.) Courier. 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