Get a Life: New year, new way of thinking - News - MailTribune.com - Medford, OR

Mail Tribune (Medford, OR — Wayback)

2015-01-04

Document text

0 of 3 Premium Clicks used this month SUBSCRIBE Print + Online Subscriber Activation  |  Register x Forgot Password | Need an Account? e-edition | subscribe | newsletter | deals Home News Latest Stories Emergency services Sight for sore eyes Ashland schools to implement chickenpox precautions Pioneering KSOR music show host dies at 64 RVTD braces for cuts to bus routes Crime, Courts and Emergency Services Emergency services Laser beam strike delays flight VIDEO: Wrap Up, week of Jan. 2 Man on parole for robbery arrested after crashing stolen truck Car crashes into Medford yard New Year's Eve Politics and Elections Councilman stirs online dust-up with anti-marijuana post State certifies recount showing failure of GMO-labeling measure Time running out for O&C funds GMO vote recount still shows little change Education Ashland schools to implement chickenpox precautions Traveling artist sets the stage for Ruch School amphitheater Ruch school class focuses on the natural environment Bethel Church helps families at McLoughlin Middle School Logos may offer students 'fifth year' at RCC or SOU Environment Monument expansion expected to increase tourism, protect resources Biologist resigns over LNG reporting failure Bird flu discovered in Winston backyard flock Jackson County holds back on enforcing GMO ban for now No fish, no funding for problem dams State News Oregon fans get married Rose Bowl parking lot Earthquake off coast shakes Humboldt County Stranded sea turtle recovers at Oregon aquarium Oregon minimum wage rises to $9.25 Storm brings snow, cold to West Nation - World Obama makes Maduro’s ‘insolent Yankees’ line harder to sell Obituaries Jeannine Gardiner Dr. Kenneth Emerson Janet E. Leonard Lyle Roberts Death Notices Weather Photo Galleries Since You Asked Videos Web Cams Mail Tribune 100 Shareable In memoriam: 2014’s notable deaths Looking back: Do you remember 2014’s biggest stories? Sports Latest Stories Tyner’s Time Watt, Gronkowski unanimous All-Pro picks It’ll be Ducks, Bucks in the ‘Spread Bowl’ Things to watch for in tonight’s Civil War And then there were two Varsity 541 College Sports Tyner’s Time It’ll be Ducks, Bucks in the ‘Spread Bowl’ Things to watch for in tonight’s Civil War And then there were two Buckeyes stun Alabama in Sugar Bowl Pro Sports Watt, Gronkowski unanimous All-Pro picks Rose, Bulls down Nuggets Capitals top Blackhawks 3-2 in Winter Classic LeBron to miss two weeks with injuries Ravens head of security charged with sex offense Community Sports Business Latest Stories Irrigation system upgrade gets a forum Ride & Drive: 2015 Honda Crosstour Positive Steps Rising prices bear fruit for local pear growers Dear Monty: Best start for 1st-time homebuyers Real Estate News Dear Monty: Best start for 1st-time homebuyers Rental owners group reports 2.48 percent vacancy rate People In Business Transportation Falling gas prices help spur travel at Medford airport Agriculture Rising prices bear fruit for local pear growers K-BAR ignites agriculture boom beneath Table Rocks Opinion Latest Granlund cartoon: Palestine statehood bid Michelle Teheux: Lucky to be alive (and white?) Our View: Meeting in the middle keeps a mill open Michael Gerson: Clear choice, or clear trauma? Letters to the Editor. Jan. 2 Editorials Our View: Meeting in the middle keeps a mill open Our View: Help clear the air for the new year Our View: Caves expansion worth the wait Other Views: Oregon incomes still lag behind Our View: Council is barking up the right tree Letters to the Editor Letters to the Editor. Jan. 2 Letters to the Editor, Jan. 1 Letters to the Editor, Dec. 31 Letters to the Editor, Dec. 30 Letters to the Editor, Dec. 29 Guest Opinions Guest Opinion: Loved one chose death with dignity in Oregon Guest Opinion: Forest thinning means water for the future Guest Opinion: Suit threatens family farms and democratic vote Guest Opinion: SOU pool decision short-sighted Guest Opinion: It's time for biologists to let OR-7 go dark Lifestyle Latest stories Community blog: Get the New Year off to a Great Start Hobart Bluff offers top-notch views Fishing report: Jan. 2, 2015 'Wild' about hiking Churches start new year with messages of hope Food Community blog: Ring in new flavors with year's last appetizers Food for Thought: Tips for cooking when you have food allergies Food for Thought: Wintertime wining and dining Kitchen Call: The comfort of creamy soups Community blog: Baking contest finalists combine cookies, candies Home and Garden Dear Monty: Best start for 1st-time homebuyers Dear Monty: Can a rookie real estate agent be a good choice? Bathtub or shower: What’s best for you? Home Help: Home safety tips for a safe and happy winter season How NOT to install drywall Health Community blog: We Don't Have To Conspire Against Good Health HealthStyle: New year, new you Health Watch: Build up your glutes in the off-season Dr. Jeff Hersh: What's a monoclonal antibody? Dr. Murray Feingold: Have a happy and stress-free holiday Hiking Biking Faith Churches start new year with messages of hope (No heading) Churches, synagogs host seasonal events Bethel Church helps families at McLoughlin Middle School Milestones and Achievements Little Yaretzi is county's first baby of 2015 Local landowners see no public good in proposed pipeline Pear Blossom queen has open heart surgery Hundreds enjoy Christmas dinner, gifts at St. Vincent de Paul SinceYou Asked: SBA would work with Mt. Ashland Ski Area about loan Columnist for a Day Rogue Healthy Aging Tempo Latest stories Live Music in Local Clubs Generation Jones plays Paddy Brannan's Pete Herzog and Dennis Walker play 2Hawk Winery Paul Turnipseed Trio at Belle Fiore Jefferson State Choral Coalition presents 'Reason for the Season' Theater Camelot's 'Fiddler' is a charmer ACT presents reading of 'The Quality of Life' Meet the real Jacob Marley This Nutcracker ballet will have a superhero twist Plumbing the depths of meaning Music Live Music in Local Clubs Generation Jones plays Paddy Brannan's Pete Herzog and Dennis Walker play 2Hawk Winery Paul Turnipseed Trio at Belle Fiore Jefferson State Choral Coalition presents 'Reason for the Season' Community Events New Schneider Museum exhibits highlight First Friday Celebrate winter solstice with the Bad Film Society Tomaseen Foley's "A Celtic Christmas" returns to the Craterian Theater Stefan Baumann and Eugene Bennett highlight Third Fridays Dancing People Company celebrates the solstice Dining Jackson Creek Pizza Co. is a good downtown haunt Dobra Tea menu offers hundreds of brews Food for Thought: Wintertime wining and dining Coffee shops roll out holiday-inspired drinks Over Easy serves 'pop-up' brunch Sundays Tempo Videos Classifieds Jobs Autos Real Estate FEATURED   » Obituaries Blogs TV Listings Movie Listings Oregon Outdoors Oregon Healthy Living Magazines & Special Sections NEWS NOW   Ashland schools to implement chickenpox precautions       ...       2014 set weather records in the Rogue Valley       ...       Laser beam strike delays flight       ...       Ashland schools to implement chickenpox precautions       ...       2014 set weather records in the Rogue Valley       ...       Laser beam strike delays flight       ...           Get a Life: New year, new way of thinking Comment By Loretta LaRoche More Content Now MailTribune.com By Loretta LaRoche More Content Now Posted Dec. 29, 2014 @ 8:02 am By Loretta LaRoche More Content Now Posted Dec. 29, 2014 @ 8:02 am »  Social News I remember a time when New Year’s Eve meant trying to figure out if I was going to have a party or where I was going to celebrate. Over the years, I stayed home more often, perhaps inviting a few couples over for dinner. As midnight came closer, watches were checked frequently in order not to miss the excitement of ringing in a new year. Well, my New Year’s mentality has changed dramatically. I have shifted my thinking into believing that every moment, every hour, every day, is new. I’m excited to wake up every day and find that I’m still here! I know that part of that shift is my age. I recognize now more than ever the importance of savoring my life to the fullest when possible, since we never know when that possibility will be taken from us. I have met so many individuals who were planning celebrations that never occurred due to some unfortunate circumstance that got in the way. This is not a column meant to dissuade anyone from gathering with friends and family to ring in the New Year, but rather to encourage the practice of celebrating life in the day to day! We often take the day we’re in for granted, since it is easy to believe that tomorrow will be here before you know it. Unfortunately, our tomorrows become yesterdays in the blink of an eye. One of my favorite metaphors for life is as follows: “Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, and today is a gift, that’s why they call it the present.” If we could actually embrace this mentality, life would indeed be healthier and happier. This is not an easy path to follow. After 30 years of teaching stress management, I would like to share some of what I’ve learned and what others have taught me. Every morning when you wake up, you are literally being given the opportunity to redirect your life. As you get up, shout, “I’m back!” Then focus on what you are going to create for the day. Open your heart and mind to the excitement of possibilities. Smile often and open the door to new ways of being. Make an intention to renew what you might have lost in yourself: enthusiasm, spontaneity, childlike wonder for a pile of leaves, a puddle, or a funny little bug. Expand the unique you, have fun with yourself as if you were the most interesting person to be with. Be open to accept new things, ideas, and people into your life which helps to create an ever expanding capacity for joy. This may very well be the best way to ring in the New Year, and all the New Years we may have ahead of us. Author, humorist, PBS star and Fortune 500 trainer Loretta LaRoche lives in Plymouth, Massachusetts. To share your pet peeves, questions or comments, write to The Humor Potential, 50 Court St., Plymouth, MA 02360. Visit her website at stressed.com. By Loretta LaRoche More Content Now MailTribune.com By Loretta LaRoche More Content Now Posted Dec. 29, 2014 @ 8:02 am » Comment or view comments   Reader Reaction »  STAY INFORMED   Email NewsLetter   Sign Up Today   Sign up for our newsletter and have the top headlines from your community delivered right to your inbox. calendar Connect with MailTribune.com Facebook Twitter RSS Back to top Reader Services Reader Services Home Subscriptions Subscriber controls Contact us Submissions Photos Events Letters to the editor Corrections Announcements Obituaries Story ideas Since you asked Alerts Email Alerts RSS Feeds Text Alerts Advertise Media Kit Home Products and services Ad rates Advertising contacts Mail Tribune Daily Tidings The Nickel Shop Our Valley Blogs Stay Informed   Email newsletter   Sign Up Today   Sign up for our newsletter and have the top headlines from your community delivered right to your inbox. Your privacy is important, read our privacy policy. © Copyright 2015 Local Media Group, Inc. All Rights Reserved.    Privacy Policy  |  Terms of Service  |  Local Media Group Publications Original content available for non-commercial use under a Creative Commons license, except where noted. MailTribune.com | P.O. Box 1108, Medford, OR 97501