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0 of 3 Premium Clicks used this month SUBSCRIBE Print + Online Subscriber Activation  |  Register x Forgot Password | Need an Account? subscribe | newsletter | deals Home News Latest Stories Theater review: Thanks for the Memories pulls off challenging 'Anastasia' in Ashland Coffee with the editor Ashland footgolf event gives players a new way to get around the links Record attendance for Latino student gathering Robotics teams showcase their creations at ScienceWorks in Ashland on Saturday Education Record attendance for Latino student gathering Robotics teams showcase their creations at ScienceWorks in Ashland on Saturday Rogue Valley musicians shine in OLLI’s spring class schedule Work your body to save your braaaaains Ashland robotics team fares well at Oregon City Environment Mt. Ashland Ski Area: Low snow closes 'bunny hill' chairlift for beginning skiers With pre-season conditions worst in 25 years, catastrophic wildfires expected in region this summer Legislature might be divided on clean fuels bill, but these Ashlanders weren't Ashland Rowing Club members put their backs into Emigrant Lake clean-up The birdman of Bellview Business Silvio Calabi: 2015 Cherokee is a modern Jeep Ride & Drive: 2015 Hyundai Genesis Ride & Drive: 2015 Honda Civic sedan Silvio Calabi: Mercedes-Benz ML250 raises the diesel 4×4 stakes Ride & Drive: 2015 Chrysler 300 Politics and elections Arthur I. Cyr: South Korea represents long-term triumph – for them and for US Mark L. Hopkins: Looking for a political straight shooter Oregon's governor appoints new secretary of state Ballots on Jackson County marijuana tax go out today Kate Brown sworn in as Oregon's 38th governor State News Oregon's governor appoints new secretary of state Kate Brown sworn in as Oregon's 38th governor Federal investigation of Kitzhaber to focus on potential financial crimes Nation - World Leonard Nimoy, famous as Mr. Spock on 'Star Trek,' dies Obituaries Death Notices Jolie Ann Eleanor Johnson Henry Allen Hamlin Shiela Marie Death Notices Shareable Bank of America is predicting a massive Tesla collapse Mars One attracts science fiction geeks and people who hate society Sports Latest Stories Ashland footgolf event gives players a new way to get around the links Young shoots Ducks into Pac-12 title game Grizz alpine skiers finish strong at state Raider softball team opens league play with split at Northwest West's 32 powers No. 21 Southern Oregon into Elite Eight High school Grizz alpine skiers finish strong at state Ashland High's Honsinger tops field in final nordic ski meet Grizz snowboard team heads to state with repeat potential Grizzlies let second-half lead slip away in season-ending loss to CV Williams named first-team all-star Southern Oregon University Young shoots Ducks into Pac-12 title game Raider softball team opens league play with split at Northwest West's 32 powers No. 21 Southern Oregon into Elite Eight Cold-shooting Raiders fall to Tabor in second round Ducks get hot, fend off Buffaloes in Pac-12 quarters Voices Latest Stories Council Corner: City considers the sharing economy Our view: Keep it simple in developing marijuana rules Herb Rothschild Jr.: Demonizing Putin makes case for war Letters to the Editor, March 14 Matthew T. Mangino: Leniency or smart punishment strategy Editorial Our view: Keep it simple in developing marijuana rules Our View: Ashland is at risk as a bad fire season looms Our View: Ashland backs residents over visitors in lodging decision Our View: No need for blame in Hannah Thomas-Garner case Our view: Ashland tackles school attendance areas the right way Letters Letters to the Editor, March 14 Letters to the Editor, March 12 Letters to the Editor, March 11 Letters to the Editor, March 9 Letters to the Editor, March 7 Guest opinions Guest Opinion: More reasons to oppose Jordan Cove Guest Opinion: It's Groundwater Awareness Week; test your well Guest Opinion: Ashland schools failed to protect my son from bullying Guest Opinion: There is nothing uniform about the Uniform Crime Report Guest Opinion: Growth carries risks Columns Council Corner: City considers the sharing economy Herb Rothschild Jr.: Demonizing Putin makes case for war Guest Opinion: More reasons to oppose Jordan Cove Jeffrey Gillespie: The opaqueness of Hillary Clinton Editor's Notes: Rooting for Eliza Schaaf in The Arc dance competition Chris Honore Council Corner Editor's Notes Jeffrey Gillespie Herb Rothschild Revels Latest Stories Movie listings: March 13-18 Nitty Gritty Dirt Band co-founder John McEuen performs at the Unitarian Fellowship in Ashland Thanks for the Memories presents 'Anastasia' Community blog: Take a peek at poet Scott Wozniak Community blog: Memorize poems with your whole body Theater Theater review: Thanks for the Memories pulls off challenging 'Anastasia' in Ashland Ticket availability Ticket Availability Ticket Availability Ticket availability Music The Farr Side: Madonna — ever the trendsetter Nitty Gritty Dirt Band co-founder John McEuen performs at the Unitarian Fellowship in Ashland Alice DiMicele plays Unitarian Fellowship The Farr Side: Another career highlight for Kelly Clarkson Music on the Mountain: Ski area launching concert series Visual Art Ashland's First Friday Art Walk showcases new exhiits by regional artists Movies Movie review: ‘Wrecking Crew’ is a look at the people who really put the bomp Movie review: ‘Cinderella’ is an instant classic Shailene Woodley returns as Tris in ‘Insurgent’ Movie listings: March 13-18 'Chappie' fails to make you care Food and Drink Sammich does it Chicago-style Cruelest Month: Poetry Blog Lifestyle Latest Stories Silvio Calabi: 2015 Cherokee is a modern Jeep Inner Peace: A man is influenced by the company he keeps Community Blog: Grievances or Peace: That is the question Ride & Drive: 2015 Hyundai Genesis Life Lessons and Loves: The year of the stamps — and their many values Aging Happens Inner Peace Column Inner Peace Blog Classifieds Jobs Autos Real Estate FEATURED   » Obituaries Photos Videos Blogs Business Business Services NEWS NOW   Council Corner: City considers the sharing economy       ...       Ticket availability       ...       Coffee with the editor       ...       Council Corner: City considers the sharing economy       ...       Ticket availability       ...       Coffee with the editor       ...           INNER PEACE Inner Peace: A man is influenced by the company he keeps Comment By Gokul Gokani DailyTidings.com By Gokul Gokani Posted Mar. 13, 2015 at 4:40 PM By Gokul Gokani Posted Mar. 13, 2015 at 4:40 PM »  RELATED CONTENT Share your Inner Peace --> The Ashland Daily Tidings invites residents of the Rogue Valley to submit articles on all aspects of inner peace, including intuition, inner guidance, mind t... » Read more X Share your Inner Peace The Ashland Daily Tidings invites residents of the Rogue Valley to submit articles on all aspects of inner peace, including intuition, inner guidance, mind training, courage, fearlessness, forgiveness of self or others, honesty, gentleness, humor, open mindedness, friendship, tolerance, trust, faith, kindness, gratitude, overcoming and/or accepting life’s challenges of addictions, loss, grief, pain, awareness of presence and more. Send 600- to 700-word articles to Sally McKirgan, [email protected] . • Life: An adventure in consciousness • Community Blog: There Is Only One Religion • Community Blog: Being at peace with your Inner Process »  Social News “We have passed the age of adventure and advancement for any new thing in our life now,” said a senior citizen sitting in Lithia Park, to his laughing club friend, after a belly-laughter session. His friend didn't agree and said, “Why do you close the door for anything and everything, as life is full of possibilities?” “I don’t see any point to venture to learn or even try such new-era things.” “You must not give up so easily and readily without knowing what it is!” “But I feel it is a waste of our little time left.” “Who knows how much of our journey is left? I would love to learn new positive things till the last!” “If it is not needed and materially not beneficial, then I will not bother to even try.” “Most important things of life have no economic value. What is the market value of friendship, love, happiness, peace, joy, celebrative attitude, singing and dancing? But without these in our healthy life, we will be just machines or monsters!” “I do agree with you in this matter, but any new project takes a toll and gives me frustration. If it does not work and seems to be a failure, it will drain my reserved energy or make me depressed.” “I know what you mean, but we must be available and open to any new challenge or venture. As life always brings what we need at this moment, to grow inwards now sharpens our nervous system and saves us from dementia and such other anomalies like Alzheimer’s. So be brave and be here and now.” “I am not too keen for such stupidity or trivia.” “How do you know that it is trivia, before trying it? You can’t know how to swim, if you never put yourself in water and decide beforehand that swimming is never possible, or it is a waste of time. Then you will never experience the joy of swimming. First and foremost is your intention, your inclination, your willingness for adventure to go into the unknown so far, and then to take a bold step to plunge with positive attitude and total commitment and trust in self! Life gives us a chance time and again, but our timid mind keeps us away from the opportunity for our overall progress, development and surprise!” “What has that to do with our inner peace or inner growth?” “My friend, these steps look ordinary, unlikely to change our ultimate knowledge, serenity and knowing the truth — but don’t be misguided, as a thousand-mile journey starts with one simple and ordinary step, which looks very simple and lackluster, but that is the only way. It is said, "well begun is half done." The first step in the right direction will ultimately lead you to your final destination for sure one day. So don’t hesitate to decide and be ready for the surprises. When you are in such crossroad, don’ follow the mind, but listen to your heart and its silent whisper. Mind is always very noisy loud and never allows you to listen to your heart. So you have to learn to sit in silence and watch the train of thoughts, as if you are watching the movie or TV from inside. That is the only way to reach to yourself one day. Until you separate yourself from your mind and its monkey business and be a witness to your thoughts, you will never come home, which means you will never have a chance to know who you are in reality and will miss the opportunity called life!” Dr. Gokul Gokani has lived in Ashland since 1999. Born in India, he shares the experience of meditation with fellow travelers, is a Reiki master, Ayurveda counselor, healer and spiritual counselor. Currently Dr. Gokani teaches "Stress Management with Relaxation and Meditation" in the SOU OLLI program. For more information, email [email protected] or go to www.aumawakeningcenter.com. By Gokul Gokani DailyTidings.com By Gokul Gokani Posted Mar. 13, 2015 at 4:40 PM » Comment or view comments   Reader Reaction »  STAY INFORMED   Email NewsLetter   Sign Up Today   Sign up for our newsletter and have the top headlines from your community delivered right to your inbox. calendar Connect with DailyTidings.com Facebook Twitter RSS Back to top Reader Services Reader Services home Subscriptions Subscriber controls Contact us Submissions Photos Events Letters to the editor Corrections Alerts Email alerts RSS feeds Text Alerts Advertise Media Kit Home Products and services Ad rates Advertising contacts Mail Tribune Daily Tidings The Nickel Shop Our Valley Blogs Stay Informed   Email newsletter   Sign Up Today   Sign up for our newsletter and have the top headlines from your community delivered right to your inbox. Your privacy is important, read our privacy policy. © Copyright 2015 Local Media Group, Inc. 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